On a sunlit afternoon, I connected with Cindy Lim-Everis over Zoom. The conversation felt more like a relaxed coffee chat than a formal interview, which was exactly how Cindy is — approachable, genuine, and layered. Based in Manila, Cindy is not just a model. She’s an actress, a content creator, and a published author. But most importantly, she’s someone who refuses to be boxed into one identity or defined by superficial standards. Cindy is quietly reshaping what it means to be seen in the fashion and creative worlds, and her story is a compelling one.

Cindy’s journey into modeling began earlier than most. She was first scouted at just 14 years old, but her parents weren’t comfortable letting her dive into the industry so young. “I was too young, and my parents weren’t on board at that time,” she recalled. The years passed, and when she turned 18, Cindy took the leap and officially stepped into the world of modeling. “I took my digitals and started from there,” she said with a smile.

Even from a young age, Cindy knew she was creative. “I’ve always been a creative person,” she told me. But modeling was never just about poses and photos for her. “Over time, I realized that I want creativity to be my full-time focus—ideally working as a creative director one day.”

Her career took off, but she was clear about her limits and her path. Standing at 5’1” or 5’2”, Cindy knew the runway was not a traditional fit for her dreams. “I used to dream of being a runway model, but my height pushed me more toward commercial modeling.” Yet, that didn’t stop her from pursuing the dream. “I believe modeling is for everyone if you truly believe in yourself.”

For Cindy, modeling became a platform—a way to express herself and to show others that creativity is more than a job. “It started as a form of self-expression, but now it feels like a responsibility too. I want to show people that creativity can be a lifestyle.”

I asked Cindy about her goals beyond modeling. “Definitely fashion,” she said immediately. “I’ve always loved fashion and admired models of all types. Even if I’m not a traditional runway model, I want to lead the visual direction of campaigns and stories. I want to bring clothes to life, not just wear them.”

She shared that one of her biggest inspirations is Kelsey Merritt, a Filipina model who has gained international acclaim. “Kelsey’s success made me believe I could do it too. She’s beautiful, funny, confident—everything I aspire to be.” Seeing Kelsey break barriers on global stages was transformative for Cindy. “Representation really matters. It’s powerful to see someone who looks like you succeed.”

Cindy is aware of the stereotypes that come with modeling, especially in the Philippines. “People often assume I’m just a pretty face,” she said. “But I actually studied psychology before switching to communication.” She explained that while she was doing well academically, she wasn’t passionate about it. “I wanted something that fueled my creativity, and both modeling and communication allow me to do that.”

Her stance is clear: being smart, driven, and emotional are not contradictions for a model. “Those qualities are strengths.”

When I asked if she felt boxed in as “just a model,” Cindy didn’t hesitate. “Being seen as ‘just a model’ is dehumanizing.” She recalled a moment when a friend asked, “Do you even do anything else?” That question hurt, but it also taught her the importance of controlling her narrative, especially online. “I share what I choose, but I keep what matters safe.”

Beyond modeling, Cindy is a published author with two books under her belt, each with a very different tone and purpose.

Her first book is a children’s story about family struggles, a rare subject in a market saturated with fantasy and happiness. “Growing up, I never found a kids’ book that I could relate to,” she said. “So I wanted to create something real, something that shows kids they’re not alone and that families can heal.” The book resonated with many during its launch. “When I did my book signing in BGC, a lot of people told me they were touched by the story.”

Her second book takes a much darker turn. “It’s inspired by Lolita, but told from the predator’s perspective. It’s meant to disturb and provoke,” Cindy explained. “I want readers to really understand how dangerous and manipulative these people can be.” To write it authentically, she has done extensive research. “I don’t think like a predator, so I had to dive deep into that mindset to convey it honestly.”

Cindy’s social media content blends fashion, movement, and self-expression. “I love storytelling. I’m a  ‘yapper,’ as they say,” she laughed. “I like to build curiosity before revealing the full context. It makes my content more engaging.”

She wants people to see that it’s okay to be multi-dimensional. “I have many sides to my personality, and I want to normalize that. Being kind is the main thing. My goal is to empower people, not to hurt anyone. I want to remind everyone that you can be whoever you want.”

Movement has always been part of her life. She used to cheerlead, but it stopped bringing her joy. These days, tennis is her chosen outlet. “Tennis helps me reset and stay grounded. It’s intense but refreshing, and I love the fashion element of it too.”

Cindy is candid about the challenges of balancing her creative career with personal wellbeing. “In my first year of university, I skipped classes for modeling. I was passing exams but wasn’t happy or inspired.” That realization led her to switch from psychology to communication, a course she felt allowed her to blend education with creativity.

When we talked about pressure in the modeling industry, Cindy opened up about difficult experiences. “I’ve struggled with disordered eating and depression. I wanted to be the best and look the best. Unfortunately, many models joke that starving yourself is the ‘secret’ to success.” She believes this mentality persists in the industry. “It’s something we don’t talk about enough.”

Despite these pressures, Cindy is determined to change the narrative—especially around height standards. “I want people to stop assuming petite models aren’t real models. I’ve met some of the most talented models under 5’5″. They deserve a place on the runway too.”

Being petite has shaped Cindy’s approach to modeling and casting calls. “Many castings require models to be 5’7″ or taller, so opportunities are limited.” She admitted to wishing she were taller but has learned to accept her height. “Confidence is key. You have to get comfortable with rejection—it’s part of the job.”

She has built resilience over time. “Rejection still stings sometimes, but I’ve come to expect it. I was warned before I entered the industry that rejection is part of the process.”

As our conversation wrapped up, Cindy shared her current priorities and upcoming projects. “I’m preparing for some tennis tournaments, which I’m really excited about.” Alongside sports, she is deeply invested in her magazine venture. “I run Venya Magazine. We’re partnering with a club and printing the next issue for sale. That’s my top priority right now, and I’m really proud of how it’s shaping up.”

Cindy Lim-Everis is more than a model or a creative. She’s a storyteller, an advocate for authentic representation, and a beacon for anyone who feels unseen in an industry obsessed with narrow definitions. Her warmth, wit, and insight left me with no doubt that she is not just building a career, but a legacy.

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Written by Ellie Norman